So I finally sat down and wrote about it on the PlanetScale blog.
The post starts from running Postgres by hand, picking a node, attaching a disk, setting up replication, and writing a small watchdog script to fix things when they break. Then it walks through how each of those manual steps maps to a control loop inside Kubernetes, and why operators are built the way they are. It dips into a bit of control theory along the way. I think even if you don't use Kubernetes, you'll enjoy reading it.
You can read it here: The Feedback Loops Behind Kubernetes.
https://arslan.io/2026/06/16/kubernetes-runs-on-feedback-loops/
